Delhi Gang Rape: A Mirror To Our Society?
![]() When societies indulge in hysteria at periodic intervals, they react more and more … and more. And think a whole lot less!
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Delhi – The Rape Capital
Delhi gang rape: Anger rises in city as victim sinks http://t.co/q1aIZfz9
— Times of India (@timesofindia) December 19, 2012
Thousands take to streets in outrage after Indian student nearly killed in brutal, hours-long gang rape on bus http://t.co/69zKYIXl
— National Post (@nationalpost) December 19, 2012
Why Delhi continues to be the rape capital of India. http://t.co/CPAxEWyr via @wordpressdotcom
— orishtha ray (@orishtha) December 19, 2012
A girl liking a Facebook post gets immediate arrest but a gang rape requires "due process". The law here is a cruel joke.
— Pro-Mode (@Play_err_) December 19, 2012
@waglenikhil Also want to see what if a poor woman was the victim? Not a solid, middle-class, English speaking girl.
— St. PT Barnum (@StPTBarnum) December 19, 2012

India anyway the lowest crime rate in the world | Sushil Kumar Shinde announces measures to make Delhi safer by MANJUL dated 12.20.2012
Delhi has a population of nearly 1.5 crore, (15 million).
Delhi’s population is more than the population of nearly a 100-countries of the world.
Can deviant behaviour by a couple of hundred people make Delhi the rape capital of India?
Kill … hand … shoot … death … mutiliate
Please raised voice for following Saudi rules.. for Delhi Rape case, cut his p*** n leave them True justice for girls
— Vibhuti Singh (@singhvibhuti) December 19, 2012
@timesofindia my request to govt of india ,please cancel the permitt of bus used in delhi rape and seized all the bus of yadav travels.
— jahangirbhabha (@bhabha75) December 19, 2012
https://twitter.com/RKC1106/status/281486837661442048
2 more rape case in Delhi 2day , 1 with a 3 year old girl
da best way 2 serve rapist is : unki maa behen ko nanga karo beech sadak pe
— Nishit Adatia (@adatianishit) December 19, 2012
She was assaulted with an Iron Rod…how digusting and a henious crime.. Castrate them all…. http://t.co/Q4OO1XCI
— Mansi Pandey (@PandeyVirgo) December 19, 2012
It's important to give permission for girls to carry fully loaded GUN to shoot at site. Delhi gang rape… http://t.co/c7s6oPuB
— SMU MBA ASSIGNMENTS (@kvsude) December 19, 2012
the accused of Delhi gang rape should b given strict punishment!! system like shariat should come 2 our country to stop these barbarians!!
— hassans sibu (@hassans_sibu) December 19, 2012
Pottu thalunga daa andha 6 beraiyum!Broadcast their execution all over India! #Delhi rape case
— Jebin (@jebinkumar) December 19, 2012
Thinking of the worst and the most painful death method for the delhi's young girl rape criminals and they must suffered it every momemt
— MediaMatrix (@mediamatrix) December 19, 2012
I say take the intestines out of delhi gang rape criminals, castrate them by surgery
— Imran Hussain (@hussainimran029) December 19, 2012
Wat the hell is happening in Delhi.Aisi saza deni chaiye inko ki agali bar koi sapne mein bhi rape ka khayal na laye pic.twitter.com/5hzEMrzW
— Ishant Sharma (@ImIshant) December 19, 2012
Delhi gang-rape: Girl was dead:-( JUST HANGING WILL NOT DO….they shud be given a critical and cruel DEATH!!!!!!!
— subha ghosh (@iamsubhaa) December 19, 2012
In Delhi rape case justice shouldn't contradict.. Hang or castrate them..
— Manisha Bhati (@bhati_manisha) December 19, 2012

A cartoon on the infamous Lorena Bobbitt case. Is anti-men attitude valid and justified in India | Cartoon by Satish Acharya on December 19, 2012
If imprisonment can solve the crime problem, USA would not have the world’s largest prison, probation and prosecution numbers.
If executions can solve problems, after 30-years of executions, China would not have a corruption problem.
After 1300-years of cutting hands, legs, heads, fingers, the Islamic world is still not crime-free.
Deviants like these gang-rapists must be dealt with professionally.
Are these gang-rapists worth the anger, vindictiveness, vengefulness?
Have a quick trial – and ensure expedited appeals. Carry out the sentence.
Victim Women; Guilty Men
The very fact that we in India call molestation and rape, eve teasing is a clue to what we think of it.
— Pritish Nandy (@PritishNandy) December 19, 2012
To protect our women from rape, Our government should call those crazy Connecticut shooters from USA to do random massacre here in Delhi.
— Pragati Ajmani (@pragz_1992) December 19, 2012
Why did only women parliamentarians stage a protest against rape? Do our male MPs believe this does not concern them?
— Seema Goswami (@seemagoswami) December 19, 2012
#Rape is an outdated thing.Media is not anymore interested in rape.They r interested in gangrape.If u r not gangraped,none wll come 2 help u
— taslima nasreen (@taslimanasreen) December 19, 2012
US may need gun control, India needs dick control.
— NehruvianDOOM (@DushtHindu) December 19, 2012
For starts, Stop telling the stories of Rape in Silhouettes & Shadows. And stop saying Victim. Say Survivor. Better still, say Fighter.
— barkha dutt (@BDUTT) December 19, 2012
US may need gun control, India needs dick control.
— NehruvianDOOM (@DushtHindu) December 19, 2012
Pallavi Purkayastha, Keenan Reuben and now Delhi Rape victim! Hope the country awakes to some justice!
— Seema Khanna (@cmakhanna) December 19, 2012
For desi cops RAPE is just another four letter word. Shame in the extreme.
— Shobhaa De (@DeShobhaa) December 19, 2012
Is a woman any more a victim than a child? Or a old-couple robbed and murdered? Or a young couple who leave orphan children behind? This musical chairs of crime against children, against women; against the aged guarantees that the subject changes – but not the situation.
Sick Society
@SastiBaat @waglenikhil Be real. Outrage is coz a low-income, Hindi-speaking UP-bhaiyya raped a solid, middle class English-speaking girl
— St. PT Barnum (@StPTBarnum) December 19, 2012
The very fact that we in India call molestation and rape, eve teasing is a clue to what we think of it.
— Pritish Nandy (@PritishNandy) December 19, 2012
World is watching closely – Fox News, The Australian, BBC, Telegraph report gang rape! #TheRealDelhi #WhereIsMyIndia
— The Real Delhi (@TheRealDelhi) December 19, 2012
Only one rape conviction in Delhi in 2012 – Zee News http://t.co/MG5LA0Wt #RIP
— Hindu Defense League (@HDLindiaOrg) December 19, 2012
https://twitter.com/SarinzzImzi/status/281467401940385793
Derek O'brien on Delhi gangrape: We often make the mistake of considering rape as a women's issue..it is not..It is men's issue
— Tapan Budhwar (@EXZ_DRON) December 19, 2012
Does deviant behaviour by a few hundred people from among crores of people make a society sick? But when large parts of the society go on rampage that is surely a sick society.
International Attention
The #Delhirape gets global attention. http://t.co/lnh3AXvo A shame to the nation.
— Srividhya (@Aarsun) December 19, 2012
Gang rape on New Delhi bus provokes outraged Indians to demonstrate http://t.co/hOEu8tW7 – so so sad how women are treated in India 😦
— Colin McDermott (@colinmcdermott) December 19, 2012
Delhi bus gang rape: 'What is going wrong with our society?' http://t.co/GOx1elr2 via @guardian #India #vaw
— IWInitiative (@IWInitiative) December 19, 2012
I wonder if outlawing buses will be a point of discussion. Gang rape on New Delhi bus provokes outraged… http://t.co/APJDVFSU
— POSTALPOET (@postalpoet) December 19, 2012
shocked with the delhi rape incident. Something is terribly wrong somewhere. If this is the way women are treated God save our society
— Abhimanyu Ahlawat (@abhi_ahlawat) December 19, 2012
Why this hankering for ‘international approval’?
Shame … Shame
@waglenikhil No one resigned after train blasts in Mumbai. But after Taj and Oberoi was attacked … The division between India and Bharaat
— St. PT Barnum (@StPTBarnum) December 19, 2012
Listening to a mother of rape victim speak on india at 9 I feel helpless. Helpless and ashamed
— Rajdeep Sardesai (@sardesairajdeep) December 19, 2012
delhi gang rape :enjoy से rape तक का सफर ,केवल वो 6 ही नही हम सब कहीं न कहीं बराबर के गुनहगार है,काश चिल्लाने से हमारा दब्बूपन कम हो सकता
— mahendra singh (@mahendrasngh03) December 19, 2012
After reading the story of Delhi gang rape incident feels like what a country we live in
— dinesh babu (@dinesh_chn) December 19, 2012
RAPE!!! is an shame for our country #Shame #Delhi
— Ibad Khot™ (@ibad_ik) December 19, 2012
"Delhi gang-rape: My son is in a trauma; we're taking him back, says father of victim's friend – India – DNA" ( http://t.co/9YuUlcS1 )
— semprecontro (@semprecontro) December 19, 2012
"Five fast track courts approved for Delhi rape cases" ( http://t.co/PfsVItls )
— semprecontro (@semprecontro) December 19, 2012
About the Delhi rape incident,those those fucked up psychotic sick men should not be hung but tortured to death!!waitingToSeeWhat govt does!
— Ankita. (@anki_rao_) December 19, 2012
Dear media networks, don't give me this bull abt which city ranks where in rape stats…even a single rape is shameful…#Delhi 1/2
— Roshini Sharma (@SandraBullocart) December 19, 2012
If a member of your family have cancer, does it the makes your family ashamed? If a few members of the society display deviant behaviour, where is the shame? We just have to deal with it?
Help for the victim
Checking Headlines every hour..just to read "She is better, improving & responding well to treatment".. #PrayForHer #Delhi #Rape
— Isha Ganeriwal (@IshaSG) December 19, 2012
While people are out having candle-light vigils, protests, posters, twitter-campaigns, is anyone trying to do anything for the victim? Without intestines, how will the girl manage her life? How will she manage her future medical bills? Instead of this silly shame, meaningless outrage I did not see anyone working to establish a 25-lakh corpus to take care of this girl!
Respect for Women
We've demeaned our goddesses: Farhan Akhtar's poem on Delhi gang-rape http://t.co/Hz3JwjdU via @moviesndtv
— Paul (@Bon55Paul) December 19, 2012
india needs to vigilant abt safety of woman .. No woman deserves to be scared to live! Delhi gang rape has seriously touched n scared me
— samantha ruth prabhu (@samantharuthFC) December 19, 2012
Such a silly idea!
https://twitter.com/shivendraINDIA/status/281115183491973120
https://twitter.com/shivendraINDIA/status/281112490375536640
I am interested to know who will follow this rape case n everyday crime against women from tmw. One day outrage at india gate is not enough!
— nikhil wagle (@waglenikhil) December 19, 2012
if Mahatma Gandhi were alive today, he would recommend four monkeys, the fourth one holding his crotch so as not to rape. #Delhi #Rape
— Rahul Bhomiya (@BhomiyaRahul) December 19, 2012
Almost all rape cases happen during the night in NCR.Thn why cant Delhi police get at least 60-70%cops to work night shifts? #DelhiGangRape
— Digvijay Ankoti (@digvijayankoti) December 19, 2012
What a place for it to happen every 40 mins. In delhi the natl capital of the worlds largest democracy a rape happens every 40 mins!
— Krishna Daswani (@dswnque) December 19, 2012
Shiela Dixit's been quoted by ToI demanding that rape be made non bailable.The 3 time Delhi CM shud know that rape is already non bailable!
— Riya (@riya_93virgo) December 19, 2012
And the politics and commerce
Wow! Some jerks are really turning this whole rape issue into a Delhi vs. Mumbai debate.
— Pallavi Gulani (@astromental) December 19, 2012
If the Delhi rape case was occurred in gujarat instead of Delhi then modi was enough to punish the rapist wit death sentence !!
— mYstErious bouY (@arun_gurani) December 19, 2012
In Delhi women get raped, people look on, helplines don't work >RAPISTs vote 4 CONg & Rape mothers,sisters & daughters http://t.co/Plnmh2gH
— ॐ भारत ॐ (@dharam_vj) December 19, 2012
If there has to be numbers..Only two women are safe in Delhi..Sheila Dixit & Sonia Gandhi..!! #Delhi #Rape #Shame #UPA
— Saraansh (@saraanshchawla) December 19, 2012
Advertising their app along with the Delhi Rape story. Trust TOI to do that.
— Razi Shaikh (@Writweeter) December 19, 2012
2day BJP leader protecting against Delhi gang rape and tomorrow they will forget and all party will celebrates victory on Guj election.
— Pawan Choudhary (@pawanchaudhray) December 19, 2012
What about respect for men? What about respect for elders? What about some respect for children? Any special reason why only women should be respected? What about some respect for our leaders? For our police? For our diplomats? For our public servants?
What do we expect? Four policemen in four direction for each citizen of this country?
When we believe that some one should get more respect, we compensate and automatically respect some people less! Is this the reason why we respect some people less.
What happens when societies indulge in hysteria at periodic intervals? They react more and more … and more.
And think a whole lot less!
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Sir,
I want to point out that delhi is really very unsafe for women.
Ofcourse if the bar for being unsafe means rape then not everybody gets raped!
But ask any women,moving out on roads is just hell especially if you are alone.People staring and making lewd comments whenever they get an opportunity.And hell breaks loose in public transport like bus.They pinch and grope at inappropriate places.
There’s really an unsafe feeling in delhi.
The foremost reason for all this is because of unhindered immigration from the backwards areas like haryana,bihar and UP. Labors who come from all these place are generally from socially backward villages where women is subversive and when they see the emancipation in the cities they are blown out and their sexually repressed mind starts unwinding on the poor women of delhi.
Just asking … Not agreeing or disagreeing!
Being a male, I am naturally disadvantaged in being able to understand a female standpoint – unless I am led by my little finger, by someone who understands this better.
So, I am asking …
Are we overreacting?
Is there too much of touch-me-not attitude in Delhi?
I know that this touch-and-feel + pinch is true for Mumbai also.
But, still women in Mumbai do not feel this is a big deal.
They usually deal with such a situation
1. With a tight slap.
2. Indifference – and as a cost of being in a public place.
But Mumbai is deemed to be safe for women. If you take absolute number of rapes, then the number is rather small in DEL.
Do you think this is a case of wanting respect from males – but not respecting males enough?
Is the objection to a poor-man touching a English-speaking, middle class woman.
Chi! Chi!
The brutality of this incident clearly puts this in the rakshasa category – and to be dealt with accordingly,
Are we being fair to DEL?
Do we want to tar millions of Dilli-waasi as brutal rapists due to actions of a few hundred men?
I am probably in danger of being termed a MCP – but I am in the job of helping people take a 2ndlook.
Can we take a 2ndlook at DEL?
No sir,i didn’t even meant that i am concerned about poor man touching middle class woman.But i am saying that it’s a general trend because mostly these peoples are involved. (Not that they are to be blamed totally,it’s the situation they live in which creates such a mindset).
Plus,they are also away from their wife, so they are a bit…uhh…frustrated 🙂
I agree with you that this mindless emotional rage is lame!
Emotion without coupled with reason is hysteria but coupled with reason it becomes a motivator for change.
In our society there are attributes attached to rape which are actually demeaning to the women and serve as a detterence for the victim to report. We say ‘izzat loot gayi’ when someone gets raped, which is wrong because a woman has a lot more then a unbroken hymen and a henious crime by a sick mind doesn’t in anyways make a woman any lesser than what she was before.
I think this type of attitude entered our society during the Islamic invasion of India when woman were raped in hordes.
This has to go.
Sir, big fan of your blog, but I’m disappointed with this summary of this article.
I agree that there has been too much cry about woman rights on this issue. This is not only a woman’s right but a violation of human right, and violation of human rights on anyone whether they be man, woman, old, young should be viewed at equally.
I’m also appalled at some of the comments made by the people. Talks of castration, cutting off limbs without anaesthesia, etc. How are the reactions of people better than the criminals. Also disappointed with many people saying that her life will be finished. People must be supporting her, not saying that her life is finished after this trauma.
But I disagree with your conclusion. For such criminals psycho-analysis, case study must be done for 2 years after they are arrested and they must be given death sentence between 2-3 years. (Similar to what was done to Kasab). There should be death penalty, but no torture. Torture is not a part of our culture, but death penalty is. Since you are much more well versed in Indian history, mythology, you will know this better.
I agree with the Indian judicial viewpoint that death penalty should be given for the rarest of rare cases, but rarest of rare does not mean zero. Cases like this must be given death penalty. Also the number of death penalties given in India must be increased dramatically depending on the kind of crimes committed, or else people will lose hope in the system and start taking law into their own hands.
Comparing the Death Penalty with the Chinese model is not correct, since they have an authoritative government and anyone speaking viciously against their government ends up getting a death penalty over there.
I wonder where does this concern for human rights go, when poor children are being raped by poor people?
Or when rich people (like actor Shiney Ahuja) rape poor people? But if a poor man rapes a middle-class, English speaking woman, thousands gather?
Makes you think. At least it raises questions in my mind.
I can’t see what is wrong with death for habitual murderers or murderous rapists? It is self-defence.
Exactly my thoughts.
What is there to study about such murdering perverts. But, if there is, OK. But, death is not wrong in such cases.
Good one.
Maybe mob justice with simpler, clearer principles may be better than rich-man’s justice that we have now.
Any data on this?
kuch nahi ho skta hamare bharat ka,ab bas shabdo mein hi reh gaya hai ki..sare jahan se achha hindunstan humara………:(
Harsher punishment may not change anything…But Indian society wants to try it …. And they should get what they want
1. Rakshasas like Vijay Palande, Simran Sud (who murdered people for their houses and cars) or these murderous rapists in Delhi are habitual offenders.
2. Self-defence or safety reasons require quick death for such Rakshasas. Let us not have false humanity or dubious liberalism or compunctions about death penalty.
3. The Indian Supreme Court’s rarest-of-rare principle applies to such Rakshasas.
4. Many European societies that talk of ‘no-capital-punishment’ easily kill or support killing non-military people from other countries (like in Iraq, Afghanistan, Pakistan) quite easily.
5. Punishment does not figure in this logic. It is self-defense and protection.
1. Rakshasas like Vijay Palande, Simran Sud (who murdered people for their houses and cars) or these murderous rapists in Delhi are habitual offenders.
2. Self-defence or safety reasons require quick death for such Rakshasas. Let us not have false humanity or dubious liberalism or compunctions about death penalty.
3. The Indian Supreme Court’s rarest-of-rare principle applies to such Rakshasas.
4. Many European societies that talk of ‘no-capital-punishment’ easily kill or support killing non-military people from other countries (like in Iraq, Afghanistan, Pakistan) quite easily.
5. Punishment does not figure in this logic. It is self-defense and protection.
@Anuraag. Reading your original article I thought you were against capital punishment. Good to see that you are pro capital punishment. Also 2 years of psycho analysis, and the study of criminal’s life problems are necessary because such criminals usually lie for the 1st few months. Some criminals may come out with the truth immediately or some criminals may lie for the full duration of 2 years. Hence 2 years seems to be an ideal time frame. Behavioral studies must be made for even the most heinous criminals because it may give some insight as to why they did those crimes, and may give us some clues as to go about to stopping them. Although most cases are due to either poor upbringing by parents or struggle due to poverty or bullying by the colleagues/neighbours/family .
Capital punishment in the west has been scrapped away because the elites over there are themselves scared of the death sentence and hence have scrapped it. It has nothing to do with humanity or any goodwill. Scrapping away of the death sentence itself is a crime against society. Keeping in mind that the economic and moral corruption in the west is much much higher than India even today. Many people will be surprised to find that the economic corruption is still quite low in India compared to the west even today. Economic corruption in the west today is leading to whole-scale thieving of whole countries like Greece, Spain, Ireland, etc and even the bigger countries like the US. Also countries like the US attacking countries like Afg, Pak, Iraq and maybe even Iran in the future is completely against all human rights laws and should warrant a death penalty for many of these elites for their economic and moral corruption. Also to keep in mind that many of the elites own jails in the west. So it is a home away from home for them.
In short torture must not be done on even the most heinous criminals. They must be given a death sentence after the law takes its course(maybe 2 years). So the viewpoint of the Indian judiciary is correct that only the rarest of the rare cases must get a death penalty. But its implementation is wrong. Rarest of the rare in a country as big as india, the cases might run into hundreds every few years.
Also China giving death penalty for those people who protest against the government is open news. I don’t have proper sources, but I have read about it in various places on the internet.
regarding economic corruption, the most important way to bring about a reduction in economic corruption is to ask the people to keep their monthly savings in silver and gold every month. i.e buy some silver and gold with whatever savings you accumulate every month and maybe keep it in the bank locker. If most of the people keep their savings in silver and gold the political elites will be helpless to bring about any drastic money printing as that will result in the escalation of the price of gold. Also some simple administrative reforms like moving towards a more free market economy, but with simple rules to check corporate monopolization and large scale computerization of land distribution, land redistribution, reducing wealth taxes and property taxes, etc can reduce economic corruption to some extent.
Since most of the gold and silver is kept in bank lockers anyway, it is up to the ‘economic minds’ of this country to come up with schemes to properly convert the gold/silver stored in lockers into rupees. But since most the economic heads of this country either receive their higher education in the west or have western oriented education they will say gold=bad and stop buying gold as it is draining the indian economy or other such foolish statements.
Interestingly the meaning of the word Rupee is silver.(Rupee comes from sanskrit word Raupya meaning silver), yet we use paper printed with colour ink as rupees today!!
Another way one can reduce rural poverty is to eat millets like jowar, ragi, bajra, and other millets as our main cereal instead of rice, wheat as millets require a lot lesser water to grow(wheat also requires less water but can only grow in cold climate and hence is grown after the indian monsoon and so is completely dependent on irrigation). Hence growing and eating millets will also help India to eliminate hunger and poverty.
gang rape victim passes away. If the perpetrators do not get death sentence, people will lose the respect for law in india.
They will lose respect even if they are punished. Its funny how childish most of these wannabe activists act like… mired in their inferiority complex and a total lack of knowledge about how laws work.
It’s not the incidence of rape that is galling. In this respect, certainly the incidence of Rape in India is lower than in the UK. But, I think in general what’s galling is that if you are influential you can get away with Rape in Indis which you may not be able to do in the UK. How many MPs and MLAs do we have with rape charges pending against them? How many senators in the U.S. are in the same situation?
Dear Skeptic
You should be more skeptical of your own ‘knowledge’ and certitude and check out before you say make such brash statement.
Please check out this lonk. Check more using google.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2260589/Jimmy-Savile-scandal-Report-reveals-raped-34-women-girls-sexually-assaulted-450.html
Jimmy Saville was Procurer-In-Chief for the British Elite.
Maybe you should also check out JFK’s sex life.
Perhaps you must take a 2ndlook at your own logic before making pompous and self-righteous statements that you are especially prone to every now and then. For every Jimmy Saville, I can point out several Indian MPs/MLAs with such cases pending against them for several years as well as running prostitution rings with child sex slaves. Do you want me to get started and play this game with me? Your comments section will fill up, Friend. Care to point out more than Jimmy Saville? Want me to start providing links to what our MPs have done? Or are you going to start resorting to name calling and call me an RNI (Resident Non Indian)? That’s your brahmastra, right? Do it!
JFK had multiple affairs, true. Committed adultery true. But I am not aware he raped anyone. Is that what you are claiming? As for arguments go, what a non-sequitor this is! You might have done a better job by pointing out Clinton and his misconduct with Paula Jones!
I asked some simple questions
1. How many UK MPs and US senators have rape charges pending
2. How many in India
3. Compare the two numbers.
4. Also adjust for population and again compare the two numbers
And what did you do instead? Certainly did not answer the question. So I’ll answer them for you.
1. How many UK MPs and US senators have rape charges pending against them: UK = 1, USA = can’t even find the links. Would you please oblige me and send me some links for present serving U.S. senators with these charges against them?
2. How many in India: maybe 260, maybe 369. Let’s play the post some links game
a. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/indiahome/indianews/article-2251310/A-rape-charge-bar-politicians-260-MLAs-MPs-contested-polls-facing-sexual-assault-charges.html
b. http://www.rediff.com/news/report/lawmakers-369-face-charges-of-rape-crimes-against-women/20121221.htm
3. Compare the two numbers. Hahahaha!
4. Also adjust for population and again compare the two numbers: Hahahaha!
I am not sure how you are going to wriggle your way out of this one, but I’m sure you’ll manage to do it. Can’t wait for your response. You’re a trur professional. You missed your true calling. A spin doctor! What is it about the truth that bothers you so much. After all, it is not YOU who has committed the rape. Why do you take it all so personally? So prickliness! This prickliness is preventing you from seeing the situation for what it is. You are so bothered by this that you are unable to see the situation for what it is.
Also do not forget to abuse me as an RNI, Brown YummRikan, NRI, White worshipper, self-hating Indian and many other delightful such epithets that you seem to find so effortlessly! You know I love to hear such things from you!